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Friday, April 2, 2010

Bullies Update

***Caution Cursing in Post***

I would like to thank all of you for your Support. I feel so blessed to be able to share my life with you. I feel even more blessed that you allow me to view yours as well. There were just too many comments to try and answer them all, so I did want to update you in a post! 


He is doing better. The doctor said 1/8 th inch closer to his eye and he would have probably gone blind. They found the group of kids, apparently one of the boys jumped out of nowhere and blindsided my son and took free licks. I went to his school and they had already found him and gave the boy in school suspension. I was like GETTHEFUCKOUTTAHERE you mean this little Muthafucka is sitting in a classroom with other degenerates bragging... I want the LBPD here and I want this kid Arrested and in Juvie. So Police came took statements from all the kids. Of course at the site of the Police, these tough ass little boys almost peed their pants... the boys own friends turned on him and said that he kid blindsided Islaam and socked him for no reason. They said the kid is on probation for smoking weed and is always picking on people. I stayed at the school for 4 hours.. I wasn't leaving until that fucker was in handcuffs! Now we are just waiting for the Juvenile Courts to contact us. They asked if I wanted to talk to the kids parents and I said Hell Naw.... it's a little too soon for that.  If the parents want to still talk to me after I prosecute their Son, let me know.


I had previously signed up for an Autism Conference this weekend. Unfortunately I was unable to get a refund. My son is such a good kid... he told me that I should go that it was important for his brother.  So my sons are with very good trusting friends and I will be home in the morning.  I feel real guilty being gone.. well I guess guilty isn't the word. I just feel sad.


I will be posting my Weekend Warrior Meme in the morning.


Thanks again to my blogging family and the blogfia... Y'ALL ROCK!!


Jane

P.S. He is getting an Administrative Special Transfer to a new school. I think I scared the whole front office. <--- that was kinda cool.

30 comments:

william said...

everyone hates a bully dear, hope he gets over this, u will always get support against bullying :)

Éimí said...

I'm appalled by what happened to your son. Good for you for standing up for him, and making sure that these lowlifes aren't able to do this to anyone else!

Hair Bows & Guitar Picks said...

You go girl.....Some one touches my kid and watch out world!

Stacey said...

Mama's raising hell usually gets results! I'm glad something is being done about this.

Logical Libby said...

Hell hath no fury like a mad Mama. And those office people should have been scared. And they should have called the police IMMEDIATELY.

MommyLovesStilettos said...

WOW. His parents should be ashamed of him. That is so awful.What a stupid little shit head asshole punk!!!

faerwillow said...

~just as it should be...i am so happy your son will be transferred to a new school...away from thelikes of such...hats off to you for taking control and taking a postive stand for your child...i do hope justice will be served to the one who chose to do such adn as for the conference...hold no guilt, our lives have to always continue on...you are teaching your boys a valuable lesson in this...move forward...each day anew...they are safe and in good hands as you said...so go and enjoy...well wishes and brightest blessings~

Evonne said...

Good for you for going in there and raising hell. I agree that more needed to done than just in-school. I'm glad you are able to transfer him to a new school.

Angela said...

Way to go Momma Bear! I am so glad that he is getting to switch schools and that the kid who did this to him is going to be taught a lesson, in some way or another! My mom always told me she was a nice person until someone messes with her babies! I guess thats just how all moms are! You rock!

G.Older Man said...

You are so great, Jane. I so admire you.
I'm glad you got that kid taken care of before he did to others.
I'm so glad your son is doing okay.
Ya'll rock.

Chief said...

Way to go~

I have been worried sick about the whole thing. Is the new school a better school or just about the same, just without these particular assholes?

Jen said...

Way to go :) . It sounds Like the wake up call this bully will need hopefully to realise he can't just bash people without consequence! I hope your son is recovered soon.

Aphrodite's Mortal Friend (ME) said...

Go to the confrence- assuming there is someone you trust to be with your other son- it sounds like he understands!

Mama Wheaton said...

I love that you went all mother bear on the school and those punks. Probably to many other parents looked the other way - kudos for you and your son. Try not ot be sad, you are doing something worthwhile for both of your children and it will pay off in the end.

Shana said...

hey! This Blogfia ain't just a button. We have your back! I am so glad you pressed charges and that your son will be ok. I hate that it is like this these days.

gamommy2two said...

Way to go Momma! You show those kids that they can't just do as they please and get away with it!

Shell said...

You go, mama bear!

alice said...

I am so glad that he has you sticking up for him, since the 'default' of punishment is ridiculously inadequate. Hope that the weekend brings restful healing to you all, and that the transfer goes through quickly.

Erin said...

great job, jane! you're awesome and your kiddos are so lucky to have you. i hope the new school helps....and that he heals quickly, both physically and emotionally.

Danielle said...

You go Jane!! So glad you didn't stop with just in school supension. Something like this is way more serious punishment than that.

Aunt Juicebox said...

What a brave boy! Don't feel guilty - you have a smart, tough cookie there.

*LLUVIA* said...

WAY TO GO, MOMMA BEAR!!!

I´m glad he´s going to transfer to a new school!

I had a bully and she made my life miserable during my elementary years. Her parents did nothing despite the principal and my mom getting involved.

I can´t stand it when I see a child asshole picking on a good kid!!!

I´m so glad them people at the admin are scared! They should be! I´d raised hell in there, myself as well!

The Grasshoppa:Triplets Plus Two Momma said...

It's so hard to be in so many places at one time----we are only one person---and only human after all.

All that matters is that your son feels loved and cared for.

I am so glad to hear that you are getting the cooperation of the school and he is getting the resolutions that will be in his best interest.

I think they got a wiff of just who's momma they are dealing with.

Hugs.

AmericanFamily said...

Holy Cow. I am glad Islaam is ok. Good for you for making sure the kid who did it is punished appropriately.

Oka said...

Sorry I am getting here so late (went to the zoo to late). I can't think of one thing in your response to the situation that I wouldn't have done.

I pray that his new school is a much better learning environment, even socially.

Glad you got to go to the conference. Your boy sure is acting like a young man, does a Mama proud.

Mad Woman said...

YAY! Go Jane! I'm so proud of you for standing up for your son that way. I hope they were all quaking in their shoes!

3 Cuzins @ Cuzinlogic said...

I'm glad to hear that your son is ok. I can't stand bullies, and I'm glad that you took a stand and raised hell.

Eternally Distracted said...

Bloody bullies - let's hope that Karma swings right back around and bites him on the ass... twice :0)

Unknown Mami said...

You are amazing! So proud of you for taking care of business.

Mrs4444 said...

Your son's insistence that you go brought a lump to my throat; what a good kid.

 

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