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    Friday, February 19, 2010

    Family Fridays Dozens and Dozens of Crayola Box Cousins

    Lori at Peterson St. Louis are hosting Family Fridays!
     
    I'm a little tired today so I am going to do my Family in Pictures. My Family is a mixture of all Races. My Bio-Family, My Sisters Bio Family and Our Adoptive Family have all Merged. My Parents set the Foundation and did a lot of the work to raise us as accepting, loving, and peaceful people.... That Rock!!! I consider them to always sit at the head of the Table in my Heart. They have done wonderful about keeping in contact and allowing us access (at an appropriate age, me Junior High) to our Families. They maintained contact so I wouldn't have to shuffle later in life and try to figure out where I came from. I've been asked my story by a lot of Bloggers lately and I will do a post soon.

    For now here is my...
    DOZENS AND DOZENS OF
    CRAYOLA BOX COUSINS!

     Dez, My Sister Becky 
    (there are 2 sis name Becky one Bio other Adopted), 
    and Agnes, next pic Me, Tafari and Agnes,
     My Sister Becky  and our cousin Agnes

    Kyla and Dmitri

    Brianna & Friend, Lauren, Clay & Brianna
     Kaya and Anaya, Mya, Dez, and Ava

    Jordon and Jaylin, Kiana,
    Last pic Kaya, Islaam and Kiana,
    Kaya & Anaya

    Ashton & Lola


    Islaam, Tafari, Chanel (hidden), 
    Maya, Gavin, Ava, 
    Me (back), Erica & Janey

     Erica & Gavin

    Nikki, Kyla, and Lola

    Coralie and Amber
    Ty-Ty
    Anna and Friend
    Nathan
    Paddy and Pius

    Alex and Maria

    My Sis Tina & Sis Hope
     Lola (my grandma is on the far right)

    Amber

    A Friend and Hope...
    (A.K.A. Serena & Venus)

     

    And an Oldie But Goodie....

    (you'll see this one a lot on my Blog
    it's a Family Favorite)

    Erica and Me

     


    Thursday, February 18, 2010

    I Gotta Blog Award Neener Nenner Neener!

     
    Woo-Hoo!! I got A Beautiful Blogger Award From Life-According to Amanda 

    My Acceptance Speech:

    First I'd like to thank God for making all this possible, Second I'd like to thank the Academy, I'd like to thank all the Mommies whom actually think I have interesting Stuff to say! You listen to me more than any Man ever would! I'd like to thank my Children for being so obnoxious I always have things to talk about, I'd like to thank my Parents for Correcting me if I post something they don't remember (like their withering memory is so much better than mine), and last but not least I'd like to thank myself for being Bold, Daring, Unique, and not giving a Flying Phuck what others think!!

    So here are the Rules:

    1. Thank then link to the person that gave you the award
    2. Pass this award on to 15 bloggers you've recently discovered and whom you think are fantastic
    3. Contact said Blogs to let them know they've won
    4. State 7 Things about yourself!

    Drum Roll Please!

    Here are my 15 Bloggers I'm Nominating:
    (If your not on here no worries... I am in the process of having an Award Button Made I have so many more of you I'd like to add!)

    Now I have to state 7 things about myself:

    1. I love Reggae but can't stand Dancehall
    2. I love Ugandan Music! 
    3. My youngest is Autistic and My eldest is Sarcastic
    4. I think Chief is never coming back and is really somewhere wooing Harv
    5. If you wanna win my heart take me to a Greek Restaurant
    6. I haven't driven on the Freeway since 1999, when a big rig almost killed me on the 710.
    7. I absolutely luv Salt Bagels!

    The Terror got a lil' something special today too! He was featured on Faces Of Autism

    Wednesday, February 17, 2010

    Special Exposure Wednesday Yeah!

    5 Minutes for Special Needs
    Special Exposure Wednesday is a Meme from the 5 Min for Special needs Website. My 3 year old Tafari is Autistic. We call him "The Terror" not because of his Autism, because of his Age... and personally he is part of this family, therefore he doesn't get a pass from us with bratty kid nicknames!

    We moved this week and The Terror got a new Elmo chair and table set from Grandma. And guess what.... Wait for it.... This is huge.... Are you ready?..... HE SITS IN IT AND EATS!!! BY HIMSELF!!! Okay he still will only eat limited foods and is really picky. For example, he will only eat hot dogs that are Oscar Meyer, the darker ones.. and will only take them cut in half or whole so he can tear it in half.... but... HE SITS IN HIS OWN CHAIR AT HIS OWN TABLE AND EATS (with the exception of Raisins on the floor for Supah's Survivor Challenge)!

    If you know anything about Autism and Special Needs Children.. THIS IS HUGE!! See for yourself....

    Okay I'm Tired Now.....


    Please Visit Special Exposure Wednesday 
    at 5 min. for Special Needs


    Don't forget to Donate for Team Tafari 
    2010 Los Angeles Autism Walk!


    Tuesday, February 16, 2010

    Supah Survivor Island


    I'm Playing Supah Survivor Island

    My Character is Russell
    Woo-Hoo

    We got our first Challenge 

    Click Here to See How we Did!


    Post it Note Tuesday with Supah

     
     Join Supah and her Fab Bloggin' Buddies to make and see more Post-it's!

    Monday, February 15, 2010

    All About MEme Monday : YOu can Quote Me ..


    Join SupahMommy and MommyBrain in MEme Monday Fun!

    My Favorite Quote:

    "Every saint has a past 
    and every sinner has a future."
    ~Oscar Wilde 

     
    Why is this My Favorite Quote?

    It baffles me when uber religious people chastise 
    those who don't believe as they do, or live according to their word.. whatever happened to "love thy neighbor?" not love thy neighbor only if thy neighbor is a carbon copy of you.
    It baffles me how when someone quits anything
    ...ciggarettes, drinking, drugs, lose weight, etc. 
    they get on the "I did it why can't you" bandwagon".
    It baffles me when people do not allow others 
    to find their own way.  
    It baffles me when grown folks make every thing about race... you should know better!... we are one community and how will our children learn if you don't STFU... yes it still continues, we know this, just change shyt in your home for the next generation... there are more pressing topics to pursue.. like Cancer, Autism, Seniors that have worked all their lives only to get phucked by the HealthCare System! 








    The Trendy Treehouse

    Sunday, February 14, 2010

    Sunday Stealing 33 Questions


    1. How old will you be in five years?
    47 years young

    2. Who did you spend at least two hours with today?
    The Comedian, Mr. Attitude, and The Terror

    3. How tall are you?
    5ft 7 1/2 inches

    4. What do you look forward to most in the next six weeks?
    Buying Furniture for my new apartment

    5. What’s the last movie you saw?
    Temple Grandin on HBO... loved it... you can still Tivo it... do it... NOW

    6. Who was the last person you called?
    Landlord about Garbage Disposal


    7. Who was the last person to call you?
    My Daughter

    8. What was the last text message you received?
    Daughter (she was watching "The Terror"): It's really hard to use the bathroom with this child!

    9. Who was the last person to leave you a voicemail?
    My son's school.... he was 5 min. late to 2nd Period (are you freaking serious.. stop calling me!)

    10. Do you prefer to call or text?
    Text if its blah blah blah... call if its someone who makes me laugh

    11. What were you doing at 12am last night?
    Looking at "The Terror" jumping on the bed, and wondering "Why Me?"

    12. Are your parents married/separated/divorced?
    Married

    13. When is the last time you saw your mom?
    3 days ago... my bio-mom at birth (but we are in contact)

    14. What color are your eyes?
    Boring Brown

    15. What time did you wake up today?
    Sleep? Whats that??

    16. What are you wearing right now?
    Work out pants (for when I walk from room to room and then back to the couch), Baseball Shirt (in case I hit a homer)

    17. What is your favorite christmas song?
    Heat Miser Song Rocks!!!
    (picture me singing loud and out of tune)
    I'm Mister Green Christmas
    I'm Mister Sun
    I'm Mister Heat Blister
    I'm Mister Hundred and One
    They call me Heat Miser,
    What ever I touch
    Starts to melt in my clutch
    I'm too much!
    He's Mister Green Christmas
    He's Mister Sun
    He's Mister Heat Blister
    He's Mister Hundred and One
    They call me Heat Miser,
    What ever I touch
    Starts to melt in my clutch
    He's too much!
    Thank you!
    I never want to see a day
    That's under sixty degrees
    I'd rather have it eighty, Ninety, one hundred degrees!
    Oh, some like it hot but I like it REALLY hot! Hee hee!
    He's Mister Green Christmas
    He's Mister Sun
    Sing it!
    He's Mister Heat Blister
    He's Mister Hundred and One
    They call me Heat Miser,
    What ever I touch Starts to melt in my clutch
    I'm too much!
    Too Much!
    18. Where is your favorite place to be?
    Coffee Shop with no kids and a good book and enough change for a refill!

    19. Where is your least favorite place to be?
    In a Huge Crowd or a Skinny Beeotch Sandwich (you know walkin' down the street with all your skinny girlfriends, Blah!)

    20. Where would you go if you could go anywhere?
    Back Home to Uganda

    21. Where do you think you’ll be in 10 years?
    An Autism Supermom... with a cape and all...because I'm educating myself daily!

    22. Do you tan or burn?
    I'm phucking Black... I guess I get Crispy?

    23. What did you fear was going to get you at night as a child?
    That Bitch Bloody Mary... I still keep the bathroom light on 24 hours a day

    24. What was the last thing that really made you laugh?
    SupahMommy and Meeko using the Word West Coast... all I could picture is them throwing up the West Coast Gang Signs!! Oh and Shell's term MotherBitch... luv it!!

    25. How many TVs do you have in your house?
    Two

    26. How big is your bed?
    Pull out Couch... so I am guessing a full size? We just moved gave the kids the room and gave up having one just so I could live closer to the Beach... so I could get Crispy?

    27. Do you have a laptop or desktop computer?
    Laptop

    29. What color are your sheets?
    Gold just like my teeth

    30. How many pillows do you sleep with?
    Four

    31. What is your favorite season?
    Winter, even though we don't get one!

    32. What do you like about Autumn?
    The weather is perfect!

    33. What do you like about winter?
    Its Cozy and you can be fat and look cute!

    Friday, February 12, 2010

    Friday Confessional



     

    1. I can't stand Valentines Day!

    2. I can't stand the day is "prove that you love me" 

    3. I can't stand V.D. Braggarts 
    (VD is a disease for a reason ya know)

    4. I can't stand fufu stuff... lace, hearts, cards,etc.

    5. I can't stand not having anyone on this day 
    (all other days are okay though, i love being Single)



    6. I am really annoyed with my son's Junior High School

    7. I am really annoyed that they took the Paddle out of the Principals Office

    8. I am really annoyed that the school calls me about simple stuff that they should be able to handle

    9. I am really annoyed that if a child acts up in School it "Must be the Parents fault"...so if they act up at home, can I "Blame the school"?

    10. I confess that I believe all classes should be handled as well as my youngest son's Autism Class. 



    11. I confess I may need a Time-Out

    12. I confess I love Greek Food more than Sex
    (yes, if given the choice, the only "F" i want is Falafel)

    13. I confess I may complain but I am very Happy with my Life

    14. I confess at times I need to be a better parent

    15. I confess I am a work in progress and do not look back with regrets

     Glamazon Friday Confessional

    Thursday, February 11, 2010

    Thank You Very Much Terror!





    The Daily Dribbles

    Please join The Daily Dribbles to give your Sarcastic Shout Out!

    --- To The Terror, after a long week of moving and finally having a brand spanking new Apartment, so nice to wake up to your Feces spread all over my T.V. and new DVR.... i just wanted to say.... 
    "THANK YOU VERY MUCH!"


     

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